Oklahoma City – LGBTQ Guide

Oklahoma City is the capital of the state of Oklahoma and is located in the center of the Great Plains region of the country. It is a city that is large enough for residents to have plenty to see and do, but small enough to still have a close-knit feel. People are kind and welcoming here, and there's plenty to see and do. Oklahoma City would truly make a wonderful place to call home.

A Bit of Oklahoma City History

Oklahoma City was initially settled in 1889. Before that time it was part of an area of the country known as "The Unassigned Lands" but in an event known as "The Land Run" the area was opened for settlement and some 10,000 homesteaders quickly moved into the area that would eventually become the capital of Oklahoma. The city grew quickly – with the population doubling between 1890 and 1900. It eventually became a thriving center of industry and agriculture, being one of the largest livestock markets in the country as well as a producer of oil and natural gas. The federal government also employees a large number of workers in the area due to the presence of Tinker Air Force Base and a U.S. Department of Transportation Aeronautical Center. Today, the city remains a place full of opportunity, diversity, and is a warm and welcoming community where everyone can find their place.

A Few Fun Facts About Oklahoma City

  • The capitol building at 23rd and Lincoln in Oklahoma City is the only capital in the nation with an oil well under it.
  • The very first parking meter ever installed was installed in Oklahoma City in 1935.
  • WKY AM 930 in Oklahoma City, was the first radio station in the country to transmit from west of the Mississippi River.

Read more fun facts about Oklahoma City here.

Oklahoma City's LGBTQ Community                                            

Oklahoma City values and celebrates its LGBTQ community and all that it adds to the city. Some of the LGBTQ community resources in Oklahoma City include:

PFLAG Oklahoma City

PFLAG Oklahoma City is the city's local chapter of the national PFLAG organization, which is the largest grassroots organization of its kind in the country. PFLAG is well-known for its mission of supporting LGBTQ people, friends, family, and allies across the country in a wide variety of ways. With 500 chapters and more than 200,000 members in the United States, PFLAG plays a critical and important role in providing advocacy, support, and resources to the LGBTQ community.

Diversity Center of Oklahoma

The Diversity Center of Oklahoma is an LGBTQ Community Center serving the greater Oklahoma City area. The Center seeks to provide community services, resources, and support in a wide variety of ways to Oklahoma City's LGBTQ community. ?

What's the Weather Like in Oklahoma City?

Oklahoma City residents can expect to experience all four seasons. Residents can expect consistently hot and humid summer months with temperatures typically reaching an average of 93°. By contrast, winter can be quite cold with January lows averaging around 27°. Spring and fall are typically mild and pleasant with spring promising beautiful blooms in the fall bringing crisp breezes and brightly colored leaves. Oklahoma City received an average of 36 inches of rain per year and 6 inches of snow per year.

The Best Events in Oklahoma City

OKC Pride

Pride Week is a can't-miss event in Oklahoma City each year. This week is full of parades, parties, and exciting, artistic, and family-friendly events, shows, and activities. You don't want to miss your chance to join in the fun and celebrate all that makes Oklahoma City's LGBTQ community wonderful!

Oklahoma City's Best Neighborhoods

Unlike some cities that have one distinctly "gay" neighborhood, Oklahoma City doesn't necessarily have one area where most of the LGBTQ community lives. However, there is an area known as the "gay strip" where many popular LGBTQ bars, shops, and restaurants are located, and Mesta Park is one of the most popular neighborhoods for the LGBTQ community.

Mesta Park is a gorgeous area with many trees, parks, and small shops.  It's located at a very interesting cross-section of the city—downtown to the south, the Asian District to the north, the gay strip to the northwest, and the Oklahoma City University area to the west.  Because the university population is made up of many international and LGBTQ students, Mesta Park has a very unique population.  This diversity, along with its location and its affordable pricing makes it the perfect place for LGBTQ couples. The median list price of homes in the Mesta Park neighborhood is currently approximately $350,000.

Arts and Entertainment

Oklahoma City Museum of Art

The Oklahoma City Museum of Art is a beautiful, world-class art museum with a selection of stunning exhibits, including one of the largest collections of Chihuly glass in the world. It's a wonderful place to spend an afternoon.

The Paseo Arts District

The Paseo Arts District is an area in Oklahoma City that is home to over 20 galleries and more than 80 artists all within walking distance on a two-block street distinguished by its Spanish revival architecture and original stucco buildings with clay roof tiles. There are also numerous restaurants, boutiques, and other businesses in the area.

Parks and Recreation

Oklahoma City National Memorial and Museum

The Oklahoma City National Memorial is a memorial in the United States that honors the victims, survivors, rescuers, and everyone who was affected by the Oklahoma City bombing on April 19, 1995. It is a place to remember, reflect, and learn about this tragic event and the effect it had on so many.

Myriad Botanical Gardens

The Myriad Botanical Gardens is a 17-acre botanical garden and urban park located in the heart of downtown Oklahoma City. There are many beautifully and densely landscaped areas surrounding a sunken lake, and showcasing the area's unique natural beauty.

Oklahoma City Nightlife


Tramp's is a popular LGBTQ bar known for its lively dance floor, strong drinks, comfortable atmosphere, and friendly crowd.


Partners is a lively, LGBTQ-friendly night club and bar featuring a dance floor, living music, and a full calendar of events and performances throughout the year. It's definitely a spot to put on your list for a night out in Oklahoma City.

Contact an Oklahoma City Gay Realtor Today

If you're ready to make a move to Oklahoma City, at www.gayrealestate.com, we're here to help you take the first step toward finding an agent who knows and loves the community, and who can help you find a home and a neighborhood you'll love. We're proud to have a network of excellent realtors in Oklahoma City, and we would love to help connect you with the right one. Contact an Oklahoma City gay realtor today for a free, no-obligation consultation!